dating, but with more intention.
what is little birdie?
not a dating app.
not a typical singles mixer.
a community for intentional dating.
little birdie matchmaking is a therapist-led matchmaking community for intentional singles looking for meaningful, aligned connection.
we're not a dating app and we're not a typical singles mixer. through thoughtful vetting, curated events, and personalized matchmaking, we create opportunities for connection that feel more intentional, supported, and aligned.
based in san diego, serving singles throughout san diego, orange county, and los angeles.
how it works
step one:
complete matchmaking questionnaire
start by completing our matchmaking questionnaire so we can learn more about your dating history, values, relationship goals, lifestyle, and what you’re hoping to build.
step two:
book a consultation
after reviewing your questionnaire, we’ll reach out to schedule a 30-minute consultation with one of our matchmakers. this conversation is low-pressure and helps us to understand whether little birdie feels like the right fit.
step three:
join the flock + attend curated events
if it feels like a mutual fit, you may be invited to join our matchmaking community for six months. flock members receive a curated match consideration, priority access to events, discounted tickets, and opportunities to connect with other intentional singles.
you may also join the nest membership if you wish. see membership tab for more details.
optional dating support, when you need it
dating strategy sessions
full 50 minute meeting offering personalized support for dating patterns, communication, and navigating modern dating with more confidence and intention.
30-minute check-in
a quicker touchpoint of 1:1 guidance for questions, match feedback, or support between introductions and overall dating experience.
dating support package
a structured package for singles who want support through multiple stages of dating. from clarity and strategy to real-time reflection.
(1) 50-min dating strategy session
(2) 30-min check-ins
upcoming events
join us for curated singles events designed to make meeting people feel more intentional, relaxed, and human. some events are exclusive to flock members, while others are open to the broader community after an application and screening process
meet our team
our team personally welcomes attendees, gets to know our members, and create spaces where connection feels intentional from the start.
erin chan, lmft
founder + matchmaker
licensed marriage and family therapist leading little birdie’s matchmaking philosophy, consultations, and member experience through a therapist-informed approach rooted in emotional readiness, values alignment, and real connection beyond the apps.
jenny seradilla, lmft
co-founder + head of brand
leading little birdie's brand, marketing, and growth strategy. jenny oversees creative direction, social media, partnerships, and community engagement while shaping the experiences that bring intentional singles together both online and in person.
karen dejesus, lmft
co-founder + head of operations
building the systems, processes, and operational foundation behind little birdie. karen oversees logistics, database management, venue partnerships, and event execution to ensure a seamless experience for members and support the company's long-term growth.
kevin fawcett, Ph.D
relationship consultant + men’s community lead
helping people move beyond survival mode and toward healthier, more intentional relationships. kevin supports membership consultations, dating strategy, and men's community engagement while challenging traditional ideas of masculinity and encouraging confidence rooted in emotional honesty, vulnerability, and genuine connection.
lauren liu, lmft
OC/LA community outreach partner
bio coming soon